If you haven’t heard the line: “you reap what you sow” a thousand times in your life, it’s probably because you've heard it a thousand and one times, right? Well, here’s another because it’s true.
If you are easily irritated, crabby and argumentative; if you’re the head of the gossip committee, if you’re a backstabber, a killjoy, and try to cause divisions between people.
There’s a word for people like that you know … it’s called a BULLY! Now, I have to say that there are different degrees of bullying. Whether you are just a control freak or an unhappy person, a bully is a bully.
Do I need to tell you what the end result will be for you? I bet not! You’re not going to reap happiness I can tell you that right now. You're not even likely to harvest success. You will however harvest a whole lot of unhappiness and suffering and probably even legal issues.
If, on the other hand you were supportive, inspiring, stimulating, like being kind and friendly to others, you would develop new friendships, gain stronger relationships, and have a more productive and happier atmosphere of people around you.
Some people feel that because they are unhappy others need to be unhappy too. That is unfair. This drag down attitude is pitiful. Seriously, you need to evaluate or re-evaluate your life. Why would you rather stay unhappy and inflict the same pain you have to others purposely when you can just choose to change your perspective, grow up, and have a different outlook on life?
It’s not hard or difficult to make a decision to stop stirring trouble and being negative about everything. It’s a conscious decision and choice. Stop causing discord in the family. Stop playing off one against another. Just stop! Sow the seeds of love, forgiveness and inspiration instead.
Now I have to tell you something. If you've been on a destructive path for a while, your fellow workers or schoolmates or whoever has been able to stubbornly stand by you; which in my opinion would be a miracle, might not be trusting at first or see you turning a new leaf. It will take time and patience on you part but please remember this … if you do hang in this new path, your life will harvest happiness.
So tonight, before you fall asleep, go over your day, I’m sure you will have had at least one good moment to be thankful for. If there was something you wish you would have done differently or dealt with a situation better, review the scenario in your mind the way you want it to go. The great thing about life is that tomorrow is always a new day, fresh, with no mistakes in it yet; a do over day. Start off by sincerely apologizing and then try again.
Today you create your tomorrow. Today is the first day on your path to success. Your future is defined by the steps you take and the efforts you make TODAY! Since you have one life to live, a day at a time, make today count and choose to be happy!
Have a great day!
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